Babies, oppinions and their sex
Today we talk about a topic that made the blogger Ser madre una aventura and is that it is a subject that, personally, has always caught my attention.
When you are pregnant, the first question you always ask is whether you know if it is a boy or a girl ... and the next one (whether you know it or not) is what you want or would like to have. "Man, to see, considering that there is a 50% chance and that the probability to choose is very limited, I think I prefer to think about these things. As long as he's healthy. "And right after that, there are plenty of bombings
At this moment the stereotypes of what if the girls go shopping, what if with the children you can play football. Things that make me very funny because I think your children will like what you teach them to love. To me personally, I hate going to buy shoes (and yes, I'm a woman!). I'd rather go a weekend to the mountain to walk. To get lost in the middle of nature. And precisely because of this, my daughter also loves the mountain. She is obsessed with snow and all she wants is to go sledging, skiing (kiar) or going to the mountain (muntania). Typical children's things, if you ask me. So when I was told that with a girl we could not do camping, or we could not dive because we would not like to find it to be something really curious. In short, we will see why it is still early, but we will try to instill a love for the simple. Animals, nature ... Teach him how fun it is to jump down a ravine, watch the fish dive, etc. And yes, you will also play kitchens and dolls. Because everything has its moment, but she won't be more or less of a girlf because of that.
And, after the first pregnancy, if you thought that you had enough opinion ... do not believe it !. Now, as we have a girl, for the second when they ask if we want to have more automatically it is assumed that the next we will want to have a child. Sure, to have the couple. And when you release a "Well you know what, I almost prefer that the second is a girl." They are perplexed, what a weirdo ... but if the girl already has it. I know, but this is not a game of cards. If I have a child I will be happy. And I will love it. And if I have a child, I will be happy too. And I will love it. For me, I think the most important thing is for them to get along. Teach them to love each other. And try to be there always for everyone. And with that, what else does it matter if it's a boy or a girl? In the end what is important is that there is love.
So with this reflection today we are going to sleep. and we won't even get started with the kids toys, becaus that would be a whole other post. We probably will not fix the world, but I think that gradually if we become aware of these stereotypes we will be able to beat them and not let them dominate as they have done so far.
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When you are pregnant, the first question you always ask is whether you know if it is a boy or a girl ... and the next one (whether you know it or not) is what you want or would like to have. "Man, to see, considering that there is a 50% chance and that the probability to choose is very limited, I think I prefer to think about these things. As long as he's healthy. "And right after that, there are plenty of bombings
At this moment the stereotypes of what if the girls go shopping, what if with the children you can play football. Things that make me very funny because I think your children will like what you teach them to love. To me personally, I hate going to buy shoes (and yes, I'm a woman!). I'd rather go a weekend to the mountain to walk. To get lost in the middle of nature. And precisely because of this, my daughter also loves the mountain. She is obsessed with snow and all she wants is to go sledging, skiing (kiar) or going to the mountain (muntania). Typical children's things, if you ask me. So when I was told that with a girl we could not do camping, or we could not dive because we would not like to find it to be something really curious. In short, we will see why it is still early, but we will try to instill a love for the simple. Animals, nature ... Teach him how fun it is to jump down a ravine, watch the fish dive, etc. And yes, you will also play kitchens and dolls. Because everything has its moment, but she won't be more or less of a girlf because of that.
And, after the first pregnancy, if you thought that you had enough opinion ... do not believe it !. Now, as we have a girl, for the second when they ask if we want to have more automatically it is assumed that the next we will want to have a child. Sure, to have the couple. And when you release a "Well you know what, I almost prefer that the second is a girl." They are perplexed, what a weirdo ... but if the girl already has it. I know, but this is not a game of cards. If I have a child I will be happy. And I will love it. And if I have a child, I will be happy too. And I will love it. For me, I think the most important thing is for them to get along. Teach them to love each other. And try to be there always for everyone. And with that, what else does it matter if it's a boy or a girl? In the end what is important is that there is love.
So with this reflection today we are going to sleep. and we won't even get started with the kids toys, becaus that would be a whole other post. We probably will not fix the world, but I think that gradually if we become aware of these stereotypes we will be able to beat them and not let them dominate as they have done so far.
Get to know our Kusi Wawa method
http://www.kusiwawa.com/queeskusiwawa-es